Are you fed up with going out on dates that don’t work out? Are you tired of spending money and time meeting people - only to be constantly disappointed?
You really want to meet someone. You’ve been putting yourself out there online, but it’s eating up so much of your time and energy – and it’s beginning to feel like a chore. Is it true that all the good ones are taken?
You lie awake at night worrying that you’re not going to meet someone in time to have kids. Sometimes you get sucked into negative spirals of thought that make you feel depressed and hopeless, thinking that what you want will never happen.
You’ve had some bad experiences in love before, and you don’t want to repeat them. But even if you try to avoid negative traits in the men you date, the same patterns crop up again and again!
Maybe they don’t listen to you, maybe they don’t prioritise you, maybe they don’t respect you. Maybe they’re emotionally unavailable and keep themselves at arm’s length. Maybe you give and give but never get anything back.
You feel angry at them for treating you badly, and at yourself for choosing them. You’ve had so many disappointments that you’re beginning to question your own judgement.